I could have wrote this

THIS is the main reason it’s so damaging when adoption narratives hold up sweet “success stories” of those “resilient” kids who seem so well-adjusted. Trauma for #adoptees often manifests in ways that LOOK like positives, but are deeply damaging to us below the surface. (Thread) https://t.co/LxUgVSuMfs

— Stephanie Tait (@StephTaitWrites) October 15, 2019